There was this woman I dated months ago, whom I was unable to arouse in the bedroom. She was very attracted to me and we had made it that far, but for some reason my usual physical affection (kissing, sexual touching, etc.) wasn't arousing her sexually. She even told me so. But instead of taking it personally and giving up I decided to ask her about her past lovers and what the sex was like with them.

She told me that with her last lover she wanted sex more than he did, and couldn't get enough. She initiated sex with him most of the time.

I concluded that she responds to a form of hard-to-get. I never directly asked what turns her on since most likely she would say she doesn't know. So instead, I indirectly gathered information which would be very useful to me.

So with this new knowledge I got dressed and suggested we go watch a movie. But I stayed lied down on the bed, with my arms crossed behind my head, staring at the ceiling. I no longer made any moves. I didn't even talk.

Sensing my complacency, she soon after moved closer to me, and started kissing me and touching me sexually, getting herself turned on in the process. The clothes then came off and we had sex.

Copyright 2005 Vittorio Norman